Being teased with significant snow for days only to have the rug pulled out at the last minute is WAY worse than being out of it early. Each of the last two big systems I was confident I was completely out of it with four days to go, so I was able to relax and not worry about anything.
Getting missed is no big deal. It's a dud winter. I posted before winter that my area was due for a dud. It happens. There will be other winters, other storms.