To date, DCA's winter has been colder (35.9F) and snowier (8.5") than last winter, as well as the winters of 2013-14, 2014-15, and the analog of 2005-06. Missing to the South is a gut punch, but it's sort of surprising we haven't had more misses like that so far. The winters of 2017-18 and 2021-22 were loaded with such storms, as well as atrocious short range model implosions.
If you want true misery, 2000-01 and 2008-09 were both colder to this point and had a combined snow total of 6.3 inches to show for it.