Well no one wants to hear it doesn't look good. But if it really doesn't look good, I'd rather hear the truth. In many human endeavors (war, business, love) some unwarranted optimism can actually be useful. If the founding fathers had been completely rational, they probably would have been like "meh - maybe later". But weather is not a human endeavor. No amount of positive thinking can materialize one single snow flake or move the 540 line south one meter.
On a brighter note, I wish I had been here back in 2009 - 10. It must have been rocking and rolling. Or were people griping that they only got 12 while NW they got 24"?