God I think I'm pretty chill (wife thinks too chill/laid back, ha) but I hate jam band music. Not sure why but I'd rather listen to teen pop on the radio than Phish or stuff like that.
We don't pretend to be happy, we'd always love two feet of snow, but I think it's almost an appreciation of the climate you are in (almost cockiness/confidence) that causes the mellowing out or chill vibe with weather. You start to know it'll snow at some point or you take satisfaction in knowing it's a snowy climate on the whole... no need to fret about it. Where I sleep isn't the snowiest place but it gets the job done. Where I am when I'm awake and the sun is up (like today I was up the road at the mountain from 5:10am until about 6pm), it's a pretty snowy place. J.Spin also knows he'll jackpot locally in plenty of events. You know the events that work best for your spot and know they'll eventually come (like this one). I think you can already see a mellowing out of your worrying in your second winter up north. Just wait till its like your 10th or 15th. The more you appreciate the climate you are in, the more you start to lose the competitiveness of weather IMO. That's when you can really gather round the fire and sing kumbaya .
Meteorology is also pretty damn fun and awesome to really dig into, which is why we are all here anyway right? Seeing deeper meanings for why weather is the way it is and how it pans out.