Wife wants to go to a friend's house for dinner. They are older (70s) and have a 30yr son at home. I told her unless we get tested, I really don't want to go. Not because I think they may give it to us, but we to them. I just don't think it's worth it to sit and have dinner with people in a tight house. My mom and sister told us not to come, not that we usually celebrate together anyways, but my wife gets pissy when I tell her we probably should stay home. Both her parents have passed on now and we'd usually be in LAX for the holidays, but not anymore. I think she just feels this need to have to be with people during the holidays.
Wonder how many other spousal relationships are having a bit of tough time with decisions like this.