Same here, going to be a small gathering but I don't want anyone get in accident today. My sister from Maine got down to 95 and there were cars all over the place, three accidents within two miles so she turned around and went home. It's nasty out there in spots.
I get it, was in the same boat for about a year after I lost my Mom, put me over the edge, got straightened out like you, Merry Christmas.
Weird, I read the post you quoted now and makes sense, when I first read it it quoted another post.
At least we don't have brown recluse, I used to work with a girl from the south and she had a nasty scar on her leg from a brown recluse bite, she was missing a chunk of her leg.