You and i would have been one of them years back, Its a learning process and one that you figure out in time to let the pattern process play out showing patience, If the light at the end of the tunnel was burned out, Then it would be one thing, But going forward, It looks to turn more favorable, Just a matter of getting some of these threats to work out in between, We have been rather unlucky here recently with some of these, But these could have gone in a good way as well and we would be having a different discussion right now.