I like to describe my experience in the winter lovers weather community like this. You know how you have a piece of cuticle on your finger and you twist it and it hurts a little but also feels good then you discover a group of people who feel the same but then you also discover some of them don't stop at the cuticle...they rip entire chunks of skin off and keep ripping and ripping and one day you realize...some of you motherfuckers are weird as shit....yeah...that.