There are and will always be people who DO "pay attention to that" and other things going on and do not always model hug (there are/were multiple lows swirling around those directly associated with this storm, including a weak one that rolled off the coast of the Carolinas). My own personal analogy to trying to nail down a Miller B is somehow creating an algorithm that can determine where an Olympic long-jumper will land at the end of a jump, once they start their run, and finally launch themselves off the ground. There are all sorts of parameters associated with that process and the use of statistics, although helping to narrow the possibilities, still introduces errors that really can't be helped due to other factors that can impact result (the runner and their vitals, the track type and conditions, the air conditions, etc). You can ballpark it but that is about all.
Sometimes "common sense" needs to be used. When one storm weakens and starts to die out just as another one starts to form some distance away, and you are located somewhere between them, then that equals "dry slot" (an area of little or no precipitation). In other words, you are now "between 2 systems". There really is nothing more "complex" or "meteo" about that.
I do agree that climate change is impacting these models in terms of an assumption that they are including some type of typical "climo" data (i.e., based on some past "x" years of weather conditions to determine what is "more likely to happen" in a particular case). There will always be a "freak" set of circumstances that will be outliers but I think other factors, like climate cycles, are also hard to nail down to include in that "climo" data, and might or might not be used in a model. For example, the current PHL all-time record low of -11F (2/4/34) since record-keeping began back in 1870 here, hasn't been matched again (yet). And so far, since 1994, the city still hasn't registered a temp below 0. The heat island (often mentioned by Paul) is real. The city's defacto building height restrictions were breached in the mid-80s and the skyscraper construction since has created a dense masonry/metal/glass heat sink.
This area's proximity to a HUGE body of (relatively warm) water means an increased possibility of large precipitation events, any time of the year. It's that simple. Whether it is a noreaster in the winter or a hurricane in the summer.
I have taken note a couple decades ago when the Carolinas were plagued with ice storms. That phenomena gradually moved north including this area - notably 1994 when we started getting an increase in ice storms. It was sortof the canary in the coal mine (1996 aside). That also corresponded with the year with the last below 0 temp in the city proper as well. The ocean SSTs have warmed further north over time and that large body of water off the coast has a major say in what happens here.
Thankfully I'm retired so I don't have to deal with trying to drive in this. It'll be enough of a PITA to clear off my SUV. And regarding chasing, I expect you missed back when this place was called "Eastern Weather" and the Admins (including Randy), along with a bunch of others who frequent the MA Forum, chased a Tug Hill Plateau lake effect monstrosity and "live blogged it", complete with pics. I'm not sure whether that got archived on the site somewhere with the name change of this site, but it was fascinating to follow. I know there are chasers at AmWx (notably chasing hurricanes - e.g., Josh) and Wentzadelphia does appear to try to chase winter storms and BBasil chases severe for photos. I always appreciate the contributions of many who post here.
This place has as variety of weather lovers who either enjoy a specific type or all types of weather situations - whether winter-related and/or severe and/or tropical. Much of what goes on here involves a lot teasing and "banter", and there will always be trolling (as with any web discussion forum and mods usually take care of it). In general, this particular sub-group is pretty laid back compared to the others. But I think people will eventually move on to the next event and I expect that most here are "adults", so "parenting" (when not a mod) probably isn't called for.