If you are not one, you can't know, though, right? Constant or near-constant double-entendres might not be as funny for everyone and might actually be hurtful to some. Being an adult means thinking beyond oneself, maybe? I don't see anyone telling you to never engage in "hey now" or "that's what she said" or "phrasing" jokes, but there's a line, and maybe its possible to not go over that line. I don't think that's an unreasonable ask.