No, no....just to clear this up, I never would have suggested you were doing so here. Nothing wrong with reflecting on your own obs. The difference is there are certain points in the past when it seemed as though folks feel the need to counter an expressed sentiment. Ie...people just like to vent frustration when they haven't gotten jack shit, and it can piss people off when someone who did relatively well feels inclined to reply directly to said statement with "well, we did fine here". Its invalidating. When folks are pissed, they just want to feel heard because it aides in the processing of the negative emotions. It would be received much better if you simply report your own good fortune in an entirely seperate thought/response. I know this seems like psychobabble, but it really is at the heart of what triggers a great deal of bickering when some get porked.