Had that exact one in family room yesterday and unfortunately my wife saw it early morning and the scream is something I will never recover from. I grabbed a fly swatter and got hit with” Do not use that, that doesn’t even kill the flies” and then “grab a sneaker”.. So hence I grabbed a sneaker and went for the smash. I came in very slow until the smash and it still sensed me.. and tried crawling , but I hit it just as it made its move . She then said she’d never sit in that room again and vehemently declared it was a Black widow .