Been a good spring in this neck of the woods-yeah a crappy day here and there like yesterday but many sunny days and like you said the sun is strong this time of year so feels warm regardless.
We didn't have ours outdoors (except for a happy hour b/w the wedding and party), but we chose July-we figured that was the best month for dry weather (and it was-had a cold front come through the night before it was 78 and sunny/breezy-perfection!
My parents live about 20 miles south of Ft Myers-while they had some flooding at the Naples Beach the city was largely spared the damage just to the north. Amazing how 20 miles makes all the difference if you're not in the eyewall.
Definitely been warm since 3/1 or so. With regard to April have to consider the 5 days of +20 to +30 skewing things abit. But I'm in your camp-so far we've done ok this spring. Some years it seems like we get days and days of stratus and 45 degrees