Well said Mr. rclab, a philosophical response, one I echo. Went through my 12th holiday season without my wife- not competing with you rclab;just the way it is- and there will almost certainly be more snow, even if you have to go find it. But Mr.vegan_edible, finding true love a lot more difficult. Coulda shoulder woulda can place you in a world of regret. Side note-could you get her a plane ticket to you? Envision this-a snowy scene with a crackling fire and the woman you love-what could be better than this? Pray and hope that you make the right choice-for both of you. And now back to the weather..