Long Island is getting out of hand regarding expenses and my brother owns a company in the Buffalo area. Plus, I tend to think Buffalo is going to be 1 of the next major up and coming cities in the US.
Regarding work, I am remote in all I do - thankfully; so all I need is High Speed Internet. Though I think Buffalo needs some help regarding their Emergency Management
We do not mind driving, however, we do not want to be completely rural either - if that makes sense.
I would personally prefer a place with a garage. Other than that, we regularly use the gym and we tend to eat either pasture raised or organic foods - so I am not sure if certain areas would be easier to shop (we do order alot online for delivery - so not the worst thing if nothing close).