You seem like a nice guy, but you're off the mark here. Six months of no electricity is a huge deal. Outside of that, so is 37 inches of rain in less than two days! Especially with the higher elevations there, that is a recipe for disastrous landslides. I know Josh pretty well, and I'm sure he wouldn't be downplaying the catastrophic impact this storm had. It's also characteristic of these type of events for the full scope of the damage to not be realized for awhile- at least a few weeks. Especially in rural areas.
As far as Cat 3 vs Cat 4 vs Cat 5. Honestly, it's a catastrophe regardless of the category. Personally I feel that it was a Cat 4 even if the 155 mph landfall intensity was a bit generous. A little method I use to determine maximum landfall intensity (assuming that the maximum landfall wind is never actually measured) is that whatever the maximum gust that is measured, is the maximum sustained wind for the landfalling system (this has worked out for a number of systems, including Harvey and Irma.) I believe the maximum gust that was measured was 140 mph- so in my opinion this was probably a 140 mph landfalling Cat 4. Cat 5 wind gusts for elevated regions of course.