Correct. I completely understand it has to be annoying to see all the complaining and "Oh woe is me" posts from RDU people, especially for those that live in areas that are rarely in the game. Unfortunately (I guess), it's a high population area and there will be more of us than not.
Also, it's not so much that we don't get anything as it is that we get so little when shown to get so much. RDU is usually in a good range in early stage forecasts to get decent winter weather events, but either the storm track changes, or there's some crazy unforeseen issue that spoils the fun at the last second (i.e. warm nose last Jan/this Dec, dry slotting today and tomorrow).
Another thing is, yes, it's amazing watching those who do live in those "rarely in the game" areas get their big snows. It's awesome that more people get in on the fun! But you have to understand that it's gonna sting a little when we should live in a decent area and constantly get disappointed.
First world problems, and things could certainly be worse than they are, but there's not malicious intent or resentment, just frustration at how things always seem to turn out.
That's what happens with southern snow! We just recently have seemed to get the short end of the stick.